A long lost friend of mine sent me a text late night while I was studying.
‘What makes you a successful leader?’
I was stunned and very surprised. She was someone who commanded a very blurly image in my memory. Someone I didn’t really talk to, someone who goes by the name that even I took sometime to refresh my memory. And to receive this SMS from her was completely unexpected. But it was great to know that someone still remembers you as a friend, as a leader.
As I regained my composure, I tried my very best to answer her question.
Tried to dig hard into my mind to find an appropriate answer. Suddenly this thought flashed by my mind.
I was a head prefect.
How could I forget this piece parcel of my life?! It was a glorious moment to be crowned with the status, helding the most powerful position in the school!

The thought of me taunting the students by a mere fierce glance into their eyes excites me a lot.

But as good as it seemed to be, it wasn’t. The responsibilities were heavy, the pressure were so tremendous that I even thought of resigning. I have to choose between friends and duties, and this was usually the most difficult thing to do. I lost a lot of friends in the process and gained a lot as well. But the very best friends of mine stayed beside me till the very end. And I was very grateful for the help and support from them.

I’ve a very dedicated team who worked their ass out with us. Seriously. It was the team work and understanding between us pushed everyone towards the end. We fought for the team and for the school. It was awesome to work with this bunch of people. Their presence strengthen my commitment and boosted my confidence.
So what makes you a successful leader?

Awesome people that simply makes you always looking forward for tomorrow.

Wow. I blast from the past! Haha! Yeah, we did work our asses off, although I must admit, with the new head prefect, I’m starting to find my job a bore and a waste of time. There is no more the excitement we once had when you were a leader. Yes, our new leader really sucks now. Even talking about this is making my heart hurt. The passion I once had for my duty is now gone. I realised that I’m changing long ago but there is no will in me to change myself for the better. I must admit that I break the rules more often thatn needed now a days. It seems that I’m slipping into the part of my life where I am rebelious. But, I’m enjoying this, to be frank. I dont know why? I know that I shouldnt do this or that but I see no more interest in being good and responsible. I want your advice and comment on this Aaron. Pretty please with cherries on top! Haha! But, please dont tell me to ‘be a better person’……any comment?
September 1, 2009 @ 6:13 pm
Well, as much as I do agree a good leader is needed for a great teamwork between you guys, you bear responsibilities to guard yourself well too. It’s plain excuse to say that you break the rules jz because you’re NOT motivated to do ur job. If this applies to the other students, the school must be in a real chaos now.
Change for urself. Not because for others.
September 2, 2009 @ 11:28 am
Yes, the school is in total chaos. Fine, I’ll try to change myself for my sake…one more thing though, is it compulsory for a leader to be tall so that we can find it easier to respect them?
September 2, 2009 @ 1:32 pm
the uniform pants looks kinda ‘unfit’..XD
September 4, 2009 @ 10:56 pm
@Jolene
Tall? Ain’t that important la.
@ Erlina
xD. It was short i know.
September 5, 2009 @ 12:29 am